Communication

Asking versus telling builds trust.

Asking versus telling builds trust.

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Looking to spark a trust-building conversation with someone you lead? Start with a question. Asking (not telling) builds rapport, fosters psychological safety, and makes people feel heard and valued. It’s a great way to show them you care about their thoughts and ideas. In the book I wrote in collaboration with Dr. Katherine Meese–The Human Margin: Building the Foundations of Trust—we share a list of trust-building questions leaders can ask during rounding and at other…
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Feedback Is an Opportunity (Not a Reason for Fear)

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We are all students. I love the statement, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” Being “ready” in this context means being self-aware and coachable. As I was researching The Busy Leader’s Handbook: How to Lead People and Places That Thrive, I interviewed Harry Gruner. Harry is the managing partner of JMI, a growth equity firm. He shared that each year they are approached by and look at hundreds of companies seeking investment. They then…
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You said it - but did they hear it? 3 musts for high-trust messaging

You said it—but did they hear it? 3 musts for high-trust messaging

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I was fortunate to get to collaborate with Dr. Katherine A. Meese, Ph.D on a book that shares research on why trust is front and center in today’s workplace. (If you’re interested it’s called The Human Margin: Building the Foundations of Trust.) One of its main points is that the better leaders are at communication, the more employees will trust them. Over the years I’ve learned that even when we think we’ve communicated a message,…
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Don’t Be Afraid to Tell on Yourself

Don’t Be Afraid to Tell on Yourself

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I was sitting in a meeting with people in recovery from alcoholism, and a lady shared that she was new to sobriety and was struggling with wanting to drink. She laid out how she felt in an open way. A bit later, a person with over 35 years in recovery shared that since the death of his son, he has become very cynical about life and recovery. He said that he is making a recommitment…
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It Is Better to Ask Than to Guess

It Is Better to Ask Than to Guess

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Increasingly, I am seeing that much of performance is an open-book test. What do I mean by this? The questions and answers are available if one takes the time and has the courage to ask. This column will provide some examples. I learned how a question can provide a helpful answer when I worked at Holy Cross Hospital in Chicago, Illinois. My great fortune was that the president/CEO was Mark Clement. Mark is now the…
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Good leader communication skills supercharge trust. Here’s why.

Good leader communication skills supercharge trust. Here’s why.

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During the next few weeks, I’m going to zero in on of the key factors in creating great healthcare organizations. Trust. As Dr. Katherine Meese and I explored in The Human Margin: Building the Foundations of Trust, this has never mattered more than it does right now. Trust is at the heart of everything today’s employees want. It helps with retention, promotes wellbeing, creates engagement and a sense of belonging…the list goes on. One of…
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Don’t miss out on the gifts of listening.

Don’t Miss Out On the Gifts Of Listening

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Recently I sat down on a plane and noticed the man next to me had on an Iowa Hawkeyes hat. He was in his eighties. Before I share the rest of the story, let me tell you about my typical air travel routine. I tend to spend my time on flights looking at my phone. If there is Wi-Fi available, I connect. If not, I will scroll through emails or listen to audiobooks. On this…
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Mandatory Is Not a Bad Word

Mandatory Is Not a Bad Word

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Have you ever thought your communication was clear, yet the action that followed was not what you expected? Have you ever assumed an action had been taken, then learned it had not? If your answer to both is yes, join the club. There are reasons for the above. It could be the communication was not clear and specific enough. It could be the timeline for completion was not understood. It could be a lack of accountability.…
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How to Lean Into Feedback We Didn’t Want to Hear

How to Lean Into Feedback We Didn’t Want to Hear

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There are productive ways to provide feedback and productive ways to receive it. In talking to many people, I hear the message that they want feedback. Do they? It seems most of the time people like feedback if it is positive. This makes sense: critical feedback can be uncomfortable to hear. While it is never easy getting feedback that is not what we want, the better we learn to handle the information the more likely we…
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How Great Communication Pays Off: Six Signs Your Organization Is Flourishing

How Great Communication Pays Off: 6 Signs Your Organization Is Flourishing

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Part Five in a Five-Part Series on Communication and Cultures of Trust Over the past four weeks, we have explored the subject of communication and the role it plays in building a culture of trust. As we discussed early on, great communication helps leaders create clarity and reduce anxiety, demonstrate empathy and understanding, build strong relationships with employees, and much more. (All of these contribute to trust and, ultimately, high performance.) We’ve also talked about what keeps…
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